<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?>
<rss version="2.0"
	xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/"
	xmlns:wfw="http://wellformedweb.org/CommentAPI/"
	xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/"
	xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"
	xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/"
	xmlns:slash="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/slash/"
	>

<channel>
	<title>Wishcube &#187; Self Help</title>
	<atom:link href="http://www.wishcube.com/category/self-help/feed" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" />
	<link>http://www.wishcube.com</link>
	<description></description>
	<lastBuildDate>Thu, 13 May 2010 11:38:23 +0000</lastBuildDate>
	<generator>http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4</generator>
	<language>en</language>
	<sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod>
	<sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency>
			<item>
		<title>Guitar Hero Tips</title>
		<link>http://www.wishcube.com/self-help/guitar-hero-tips</link>
		<comments>http://www.wishcube.com/self-help/guitar-hero-tips#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Wed, 12 May 2010 15:58:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>admin</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Self Help]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.wishcube.com/self-help/guitar-hero-tips</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Content creation important decisions you need to make when choosing a first guitar is whether or not you want an acoustic guitar or an electric. A lot of people will buy an acoustic, believing it&#8217;s the easiest method to get started and understand basics. This can be true if playing acoustic guitar is your primary [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Content creation important decisions you need to make when choosing a first guitar is whether or not you want an acoustic guitar or an electric. A lot of people will buy an acoustic, believing it&#8217;s the easiest method to get started and understand basics. This can be true if playing acoustic guitar is your primary goal, but it may not be the greatest choice should you really aspire to become an electric guitarist. The techniques for playing an electric guitar are often much different than those for an acoustic. Therefore, you should probably start out with the type of guitar that you really want to become proficient at. Can easily also save on frustration because you make sure to play something on an acoustic that is going to only sound good when using electric, or vice versa.</p>
<p>Although you&#8217;ll be able to generally find affordable electric guitars in the same price range as acoustics, you will also need to buy an amplifier and cable to have an electric. Remember this if your budget is very limited.</p>
<p>You might be tempted to buy the most affordable guitar that you can find, but don&#8217;t fall into this mindset. While you are first learning an instrument you want to feel like you are constantly making progress, not fighting its limitations. Cheap, or poorly made guitars are not fun to play, and if it&#8217;s not fun, you will most likely not stick with it. You don&#8217;t need to buy an expensive model, but do try to find one that feels like it is well made. If you have guitarist friends, you can ask them what they recommend on your budget range. Alternately, you can find a guitar forum online and ask others the things they would recommend.</p>
<p>Go to <a href="http://www.guitarherotipsblog.com/">Guitar Hero Tips</a> For more information..</p>
]]></content:encoded>
			<wfw:commentRss>http://www.wishcube.com/self-help/guitar-hero-tips/feed</wfw:commentRss>
		<slash:comments>0</slash:comments>
		</item>
		<item>
		<title>How To Stop Panic Attacks And Obsessive Thoughts</title>
		<link>http://www.wishcube.com/self-help/how-to-stop-panic-attacks-and-obsessive-thoughts-2</link>
		<comments>http://www.wishcube.com/self-help/how-to-stop-panic-attacks-and-obsessive-thoughts-2#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 May 2010 13:33:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>admin</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Self Help]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.wishcube.com/self-help/how-to-stop-panic-attacks-and-obsessive-thoughts-2</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Obsessive thoughts are the real cause of almost all your anxiety. Every single time you&#8217;ve had severe anxiety it started with an obsessive thought, and it spiralled out of control and eventually became the severe anxiety you felt or the panic attack you had.
If you think this isn&#8217;t how it works with you and that [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Obsessive thoughts are the real cause of almost all your anxiety. Every single time you&#8217;ve had severe anxiety it started with an obsessive thought, and it spiralled out of control and eventually became the severe anxiety you felt or the panic attack you had.</p>
<p>If you think this isn&#8217;t how it works with you and that your obsessive thoughts AREN&#8217;T the cause of your anxiety, start paying attention to how and what you&#8217;re thinking before your anxiety increases.</p>
<p>You&#8217;ll be surprised what you discover, because obsessive thoughts are at the heart of anxiety and panic in EVERYONE. I know this from talking and working with literally THOUSANDS of people who are just like you, and who are just like I was when obsessive thoughts were causing my own anxiety for 17 years.</p>
<p>Sadly, if you live with any anxiety disorder, it&#8217;s not possible to simply stop having an obsessive thought without thinking about it, like people who are naturally calm can. So the answer lies in discovering ways to intentionally stop all these damaging thoughts before they go on to be obsessive thoughts.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m about to give you a fast, three-step plan of attack which you can start using right now to stop the thoughts you have turning into the obsessive thoughts that cause all your problems. Okay, here we go:</p>
<p>First Step: This step is all about you retraining your brain so that it can easily spot harmful thoughts the moment they start. This also includes small thoughts that might seem harmless, but these have the potential to grow and get out of hand, so consider these small ones just as important as the bigger ones.</p>
<p>Step #2: People with no anxiety problems drop a harmful or negative thought after a few seconds, and that&#8217;s why it doesn&#8217;t cause them anxiety. You need to become like them. And since the only way to stop one thought is by having ANOTHER thought, you need to think something else as soon as you detect any of these harmful thoughts. What should you think of? Anything &#8211; whatever it takes to stop that original and harmless thought.</p>
<p>Third Step: Your damaging thoughts usually begin when your mind is left to wander, or to daydream. This is how thinking these bad thoughts becomes a habit. By thinking these thoughts too frequently they start to happen on their own, and they creep up on you and do their damage. To stop this problem, there&#8217;s only one answer: creating a new default frame of mind, one that&#8217;s calm, positive, and pleasant. You do this by thinking good, positive thoughts as often as you can, so that this becomes the type of thinking your brain does automatically when you aren&#8217;t paying attention.</p>
<p>Start putting these 3 steps into action as soon as possible and your obsessive thoughts and panic-related problems will quickly be under control.<br />
<a href="http://poweroverpanic.com/">tips for panic attacks</a></p>
]]></content:encoded>
			<wfw:commentRss>http://www.wishcube.com/self-help/how-to-stop-panic-attacks-and-obsessive-thoughts-2/feed</wfw:commentRss>
		<slash:comments>0</slash:comments>
		</item>
		<item>
		<title>How Do I Get My Ex Boyfriend Back?</title>
		<link>http://www.wishcube.com/self-help/how-do-i-get-my-ex-boyfriend-back</link>
		<comments>http://www.wishcube.com/self-help/how-do-i-get-my-ex-boyfriend-back#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Tue, 11 May 2010 01:27:48 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>admin</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Self Help]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.wishcube.com/self-help/how-do-i-get-my-ex-boyfriend-back</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s a great article entitled how do I get my ex boyfriend back. This article explains some tricks you need to know if you’re asking how do I get my ex boyfriend back.  While these tricks aren’t necessarily playing fair, they’re very effective.
It goes on to describe the tricks to use if you need [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Here&#8217;s a great article entitled <a href="http://winningyourexbackfast.com/ex-boyfriend/how-do-i-get-my-ex-boyfriend-back">how do I get my ex boyfriend back</a>. This article explains some tricks you need to know if you’re asking how do I get my ex boyfriend back.  While these tricks aren’t necessarily playing fair, they’re very effective.<br />
It goes on to describe the tricks to use if you need to know how do I get my ex boyfriend back.  They include stopping all contact with him, showing him that you’re enjoying yourself without him, and then arranging to run into him so you get a chance to reap the benefits of these other actions.  It concludes by saying you must take the first two steps before using the last one or it won’t be effective.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
			<wfw:commentRss>http://www.wishcube.com/self-help/how-do-i-get-my-ex-boyfriend-back/feed</wfw:commentRss>
		<slash:comments>0</slash:comments>
		</item>
		<item>
		<title>How To Stop Panic Attacks And Obsessive Thoughts</title>
		<link>http://www.wishcube.com/self-help/how-to-stop-panic-attacks-and-obsessive-thoughts</link>
		<comments>http://www.wishcube.com/self-help/how-to-stop-panic-attacks-and-obsessive-thoughts#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 10 May 2010 21:29:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>admin</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Self Help]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.wishcube.com/self-help/how-to-stop-panic-attacks-and-obsessive-thoughts</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Written By Alex Taylor
Almoat all of your anxiety is caused by the obsessive thoughts you have. Whenever you&#8217;ve had anxiety in the past, it started with an obsessive thought, guaranteed. And then it gained momentum and went on to become the anxiety-related problem you experienced or the panic attack you had.
You might be thinking that [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Written By Alex Taylor<br />
Almoat all of your anxiety is caused by the obsessive thoughts you have. Whenever you&#8217;ve had anxiety in the past, it started with an obsessive thought, guaranteed. And then it gained momentum and went on to become the anxiety-related problem you experienced or the panic attack you had.</p>
<p>You might be thinking that this isn&#8217;t how anxiety works with you and that obsessive thoughts aren&#8217;t to blame, and if that&#8217;s the situation I&#8217;d like you to start paying attention to your own anxiety and to what you&#8217;re feeling and thinking right before it gets out of control.</p>
<p>You&#8217;ll be surprised what you discover, because obsessive thoughts are at the heart of anxiety and panic in EVERYONE. I know this from talking and working with literally THOUSANDS of people who are just like you, and who are just like I was when obsessive thoughts were causing my own anxiety for 17 years.</p>
<p>Sadly, if you live with any anxiety disorder, it&#8217;s not possible to simply stop having an obsessive thought without thinking about it, like people who are naturally calm can. So the answer lies in discovering ways to intentionally end all these damaging thoughts before they go on to be obsessive thoughts.</p>
<p>I have a 3 step plan you can start using right now to stop all your obsessive thoughts:</p>
<p>First Step: This step is all about you retraining your mind so that it can quickly spot harmful thoughts the moment they strike. This also includes small thoughts that might seem harmless, but these have the potential to grow and get out of hand, so consider these small ones just as important as the big ones.</p>
<p>Second Step: You need to become exactly like people with no anxiety problems. For them, it&#8217;s easy to stop a bad thought anytime they want to. For you, it takes a bit more work. The only way to stop one thought is by having another thought, so to stop the damaging thoughts you simply need to have a new thought that takes its place. You might be asking what you should be thinking. The answer is simple: think of anything it takes to stop that original and damaging thought.</p>
<p>Third Step: Your damaging thoughts usually begin when your mind is left to wander, or to daydream. This is how thinking these bad thoughts becomes a habit. By thinking these thoughts too often they start to happen on their own, and they creep up on you and do their damage. To end this problem, there&#8217;s only one answer: creating a new default frame of mind, one that&#8217;s calm, positive, and pleasant. You do this by thinking good, positive thoughts as often as you can, so that this becomes the type of thinking your brain does automatically when you aren&#8217;t paying attention.</p>
<p>Start putting these three steps into action as soon as possible and your obsessive thoughts and panic-related problems will quickly be under control.</p>
<p><a href="http://poweroverpanic.com/">tips for panic attacks</a></p>
]]></content:encoded>
			<wfw:commentRss>http://www.wishcube.com/self-help/how-to-stop-panic-attacks-and-obsessive-thoughts/feed</wfw:commentRss>
		<slash:comments>0</slash:comments>
		</item>
		<item>
		<title>Win Husband Back</title>
		<link>http://www.wishcube.com/self-help/win-husband-back</link>
		<comments>http://www.wishcube.com/self-help/win-husband-back#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 10 May 2010 20:15:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>admin</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Self Help]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.wishcube.com/self-help/win-husband-back</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[Here&#8217;s a great article about how to win husband back.
If you want to win husband back, this article has some steps you should follow.  The first piece of advice is to focus on only what you can control, which will help empower you during this traumatic time in your life.  It advises against [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Here&#8217;s a great article about how to <a href="http://winningyourexbackfast.com/win-husband-back">win husband back</a>.<br />
If you want to win husband back, this article has some steps you should follow.  The first piece of advice is to focus on only what you can control, which will help empower you during this traumatic time in your life.  It advises against being needy, as that will definitely not help you win your husband back.  It also recommends you try to recall the beginning of your romance with your husband.  Many times the daily stressors of life makes people forget why they fell in love in the first place.  Win husband back also mentions the effort you must make to let your husband know you’re trying to change for the better.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
			<wfw:commentRss>http://www.wishcube.com/self-help/win-husband-back/feed</wfw:commentRss>
		<slash:comments>0</slash:comments>
		</item>
		<item>
		<title>don&#8217;t despair when trying to win your ex back</title>
		<link>http://www.wishcube.com/self-help/dont-despair-when-trying-to-win-your-ex-back</link>
		<comments>http://www.wishcube.com/self-help/dont-despair-when-trying-to-win-your-ex-back#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Mon, 10 May 2010 18:43:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>admin</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Self Help]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.wishcube.com/self-help/dont-despair-when-trying-to-win-your-ex-back</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[reaking up with a lover is often one of the most traumatic experiences one can go through. Taking some time apart to think things through and what might have caused the conflict can sometimes be enough to heal the rift. Following these pointers should, however, help you in your quest to win back your ex [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>reaking up with a lover is often one of the most traumatic experiences one can go through. Taking some time apart to think things through and what might have caused the conflict can sometimes be enough to heal the rift. Following these pointers should, however, help you in your quest to win back your ex fast.<br />
First tip is don&#8217;t get involved in playing the &#8220;blame game&#8221;. Whether you are trying to get back with your wife or looking for how to save a failed relationship, you are best advised to stop accusing and bickering with them. Staying mature and calm will have a much greater chance of helping you win back their affection and love.<br />
A <a href="http://www.gettingbackforgood.com/magic-of-making-up-review/">review of The Magic Of Making Up by T Dub Jackson</a> may also be able to help you.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
			<wfw:commentRss>http://www.wishcube.com/self-help/dont-despair-when-trying-to-win-your-ex-back/feed</wfw:commentRss>
		<slash:comments>0</slash:comments>
		</item>
		<item>
		<title>How To Get Back My Girlfriend</title>
		<link>http://www.wishcube.com/self-help/how-to-get-back-my-girlfriend-4</link>
		<comments>http://www.wishcube.com/self-help/how-to-get-back-my-girlfriend-4#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 09 May 2010 17:51:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>admin</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Self Help]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.wishcube.com/self-help/how-to-get-back-my-girlfriend-4</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[If you want to know &#8220;How to get back my girlfriend&#8221; &#8211; a huge step in the right direction is to better understand how the female mind works. Have you ever been wondering why women seems to be so attracted to some men, and don&#8217;t seem to recognize others? This will give you some insight [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you want to know &#8220;How to get back my girlfriend&#8221; &#8211; a huge step in the right direction is to better understand how the female mind works. Have you ever been wondering why women seems to be so attracted to some men, and don&#8217;t seem to recognize others? This will give you some insight in to the secret world of female psychology and attraction. It will not only help you to with how to get back your ex girlfriend, but also to develop a better understanding of the mysterious world of the female mind, than most men will ever achieve.</p>
<p>Humans are not attracted to each other by accident &#8211; evolution is not based on chance! A lot of psychological factors determine how and with whom humans are attracted.</p>
<p>One of the most important factors in understanding attraction is accepting the fact that female attraction differs from men&#8217;s in many ways. Have you seen those couples where the woman is strikingly beautiful and the man appears, at least for an untrained pair of eyes to be.. Well, unattractive? Have you ever wondered why that is?</p>
<p>The secret lies in one of the most important differences between male and female attraction. Men, as we know, are generally speaking, most attracted to women&#8217;s physical attributes, while women are most attracted to male behavior. The apparently unattractive man with the more attractive girlfriend in his arms, consciously, or for the most part unconsciously, knows how to behave around women. And that, my friend, is what separate boys from MEN!</p>
<p>That fact that you read this tells me a few things about you! You probably know something about how to behave around women- since you&#8217;ve had a girlfriend, and now want to know how to win her back. And most importantly, it tells me that you are willing to do something to get back your ex. And that&#8217;s great!</p>
<p>The fact that you where able to attract your ex girlfriend in the first place is sadly not a proof of your conscious skills to attract the opposite sex, in most cases it&#8217;s a sign of something unconscious on your part.</p>
<p>You where able to attract her &#8211; then why weren&#8217;t you able to keep her, you might ask. Well, this is where most men fail: when it comes to keeping a woman, and to keep the attraction going in a long-term relationship.</p>
<p>Most men are very different persons in a relationship, and as single. When single they are all about presenting them self as the best they can be. They dress up nice to impress, show how much fun they have with their friends, are passionate about their own life, and have a lot of things going. But what happens when they get in to a long-term relationship? A lot of the traits that once had your girlfriend attracted to you like a magnet vanish! What are these unattractive traits that replace the attractive once? The most important one is: Insecurity! Women are NOT attracted to insecure men! Think about it: When the two of you first got together, where you insecure? Where you always asking for her opinion on anything and everything, from what shirt you should wear,what you should eat , where you should go, what the two of you should do, how god you where in bed? Where you jealous &#8211; always asking her about other men? I don&#8217;t think so!</p>
<p>When entering a relationship most people are self-dependent individuals with a lot to offer their new girlfriend. The new couple is two individuals with their own life, their passions, dreams and friends. Now, it&#8217;s obviously awesome to become a twosome- but it&#8217;s so easy to fall in to the habit of using the other person as a crutch. As the relationship goes on, many men start acting like insecure, obedient and lovesick puppies- and this will eventually drive the woman away, and make her lose the attraction!</p>
<p>For you to be able to answer the question &#8220;How to get back my girlfriend?&#8221; -you need to find out &#8220;What drove her away?&#8221; -Reflect on your past behavior. Find out if you, like so many men before you, are guilty of these &#8220;attraction- killers&#8221;. Might this have had something to do with the breakup? And finally: Do something about it! Get back to the confident, active and passionate person both you and I know you can be! Show her all she is missing! Before you know it, she will be begging you to come back!</p>
<p>About the Author:</p>
<p>Martha Johansen is a well known expert when it comes to <a href="http://www.howtogetbackmygirlfriend.com">How to get back my girlfriend</a>And if that&#8217;s what you wish to do &#8211; Visit this great website: http://www.howtogetbackmygirlfriend.com for more great tips and tricks!</p>
]]></content:encoded>
			<wfw:commentRss>http://www.wishcube.com/self-help/how-to-get-back-my-girlfriend-4/feed</wfw:commentRss>
		<slash:comments>0</slash:comments>
		</item>
		<item>
		<title>That Type Of Guy Who Constantly Gets The Girls</title>
		<link>http://www.wishcube.com/self-help/that-type-of-guy-who-constantly-gets-the-girls</link>
		<comments>http://www.wishcube.com/self-help/that-type-of-guy-who-constantly-gets-the-girls#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 09 May 2010 17:46:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>admin</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Self Help]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.wishcube.com/self-help/that-type-of-guy-who-constantly-gets-the-girls</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[One of the most frustrating experiences a man can have is to watch the lady he wants end up with one other man, especially if that man is a jerk. We&#8217;ve all sat questioning why girls go for guys that seem completely flawed for them. We have all asked ourselves: &#8220;Why are ladies interested in [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One of the most frustrating experiences a man can have is to watch the lady he wants end up with one other man, especially if that man is a jerk. We&#8217;ve all sat questioning why girls go for guys that seem completely flawed for them. We have all asked ourselves: &#8220;Why are ladies interested in jerks?&#8221; I would deal with a woman one million instances better than that guy ever would, so why is she with HIM?&#8221;</p>
<p>It is a discouraging feeling. But when we can dissect all of the issues &#8220;jerks&#8221; are doing proper and create these qualities inside ourselves, then we too can get the women we would like (and we do not even need to be jerks whereas doing it).</p>
<p>Women cannot rationalize why they&#8217;re attracted to certain guys, so do not even bother asking them. They&#8217;re going to justify their bad decisions until they&#8217;re blue within the face, but attraction is not a conscious selection, so it&#8217;s unlikely they&#8217;re going to even know why they go for sure men.</p>
<p><a href="http://lastlonger-inbed.com/end-premature-ejaculation">end premature ejaculation</a></p>
]]></content:encoded>
			<wfw:commentRss>http://www.wishcube.com/self-help/that-type-of-guy-who-constantly-gets-the-girls/feed</wfw:commentRss>
		<slash:comments>0</slash:comments>
		</item>
		<item>
		<title>How to get my ex girlfriend back</title>
		<link>http://www.wishcube.com/self-help/how-to-get-my-ex-girlfriend-back-3</link>
		<comments>http://www.wishcube.com/self-help/how-to-get-my-ex-girlfriend-back-3#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 09 May 2010 16:37:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>admin</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Self Help]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.wishcube.com/self-help/how-to-get-my-ex-girlfriend-back-3</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[If you want to know &#8220;How to get my ex girlfriend back&#8221; &#8211; a huge step in the right direction is to better understand how the female mind works. Have you ever been wondering why women seems to be so attracted to some men, and don&#8217;t seem to recognize others? This will give you some [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you want to know &#8220;How to get my ex girlfriend back&#8221; &#8211; a huge step in the right direction is to better understand how the female mind works. Have you ever been wondering why women seems to be so attracted to some men, and don&#8217;t seem to recognize others? This will give you some insight in to the secret world of female psychology and attraction. It will not only help you to with how to get back your ex girlfriend, but also to develop a better understanding of the mysterious world of the female mind, than most men will ever achieve.</p>
<p>Humans are not attracted to each other by accident &#8211; evolution is not based on chance! A lot of psychological factors determine how and with whom humans are attracted.</p>
<p>An important step to understanding attraction is accepting that female attraction differs from men&#8217;s in many ways. Ever seen those couples where the woman is strikingly beautiful and the man appears, at least for an untrained set of eyes to be.. Well, unattractive? Ever wondered why that is?</p>
<p>The secret is one of the important differences between male and female attraction. Women are mostly attracted to male behavior, while men, as we know, are generally, most attracted to a women&#8217;s physical attributes. The apparently unattractive man with the much more attractive girlfriend in his knee, consciously, or for the most part unconsciously, knows how to behave around women. And that, my friend, is what separates the boys from the MEN!</p>
<p>That fact that you read this tells me a few things about you! You probably know something about how to behave around women- since you&#8217;ve had a girlfriend, and now want to know how to win her back. And most importantly, it tells me that you are willing to do something to get back your ex. And that&#8217;s great!</p>
<p>The fact that you where able to attract your ex girlfriend is not necessarily a proof of your conscious skills to attract women, in most cases it&#8217;s a sign of something unconscious.</p>
<p>You where able to attract her &#8211; then why weren&#8217;t you able to keep her, you might ask. Well, this is where most men fail: when it comes to keeping a woman, and to keep the attraction going in a long-term relationship.</p>
<p>Most men are very different persons in a relationship, and as single. When single they are all about presenting them self as the best they can be. They dress up nice to impress, show how much fun they have with their friends, are passionate about their own life, and have a lot of things going. But what happens when they get in to a long-term relationship? A lot of the traits that once had your girlfriend attracted to you like a magnet vanish! What are these unattractive traits that replace the attractive once? The most important one is: Insecurity! Women are NOT attracted to insecure men! Think about it: When the two of you first got together, where you insecure? Where you always asking for her opinion on anything and everything, from what shirt you should wear,what you should eat , where you should go, what the two of you should do, how god you where in bed? Where you jealous &#8211; always asking her about other men? I don&#8217;t think so!</p>
<p>When getting in to a relationship most people are self-dependent individuals with a lot to offer their new girlfriend. The new couple is two individuals with their own life, passions, dreams and friends. It&#8217;s obviously fantastic to become a twosome- but it&#8217;s so darn easy to fall in to the habit of using the other person as a crutch. As the relationship goes on, many men start acting like insecure, obedient and lovesick puppies- and this will eventually drive the woman away, and make her lose attraction!</p>
<p>So, for you to be able to answer the question &#8220;How to get my ex girlfriend back?&#8221; this is the time to reflect on your past behavior. Find out if you, like so many men before you, are guilty of some of these &#8220;attraction- killers&#8221;, and if this might have had something to do with the breakup. And finally: Do something about it! Get back to that confident, active and passionate person both you and I know you can be! Show her all she is missing! Before you know it, she will be begging you to take her back!</p>
<p>About the Author:</p>
<p>Martha Johansen is a recognized expert when it comes to relationship advise and <a href="http://www.howtogetbackmygirlfriend.com">How to get my ex girlfriend back</a> And if thats what you need &#8211; Take a looka at this great website: http://www.howtogetbackmygirlfriend.com</p>
]]></content:encoded>
			<wfw:commentRss>http://www.wishcube.com/self-help/how-to-get-my-ex-girlfriend-back-3/feed</wfw:commentRss>
		<slash:comments>0</slash:comments>
		</item>
		<item>
		<title>the tinnitus cure formula</title>
		<link>http://www.wishcube.com/self-help/the-tinnitus-cure-formula</link>
		<comments>http://www.wishcube.com/self-help/the-tinnitus-cure-formula#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Sun, 09 May 2010 16:35:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>admin</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Self Help]]></category>

		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.wishcube.com/self-help/the-tinnitus-cure-formula</guid>
		<description><![CDATA[The Tinnitus Cure Formula can be a brand-new procedure of getting rid of Tinnitus, that&#8217;s in contrast to any different Tinnitus item that is presently available. In fact, it is better to all of the other solutions which might be available simply since it in fact works, and it costs less at the same time. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The Tinnitus Cure Formula can be a brand-new procedure of getting rid of Tinnitus, that&#8217;s in contrast to any different Tinnitus item that is presently available. In fact, it is better to all of the other solutions which might be available simply since it in fact works, and it costs less at the same time. But, how does it work and why is it so efficient? So as to answer this question, you might have to realise the true purpose behind why Tinnitus occcurs. Tinnitus in fact arises on account of a fluid imbalance within your ears, producing in undesirable inner ear vibrations. These oscillations are then received by the human brain as actual sound, even although there isn&#8217;t there. The <a href="http://www.tinnituscureformulaexposed.com">The Tinnitus Cure Formula</a> fixes this fluid difference by releasing new nutrients into your body.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
			<wfw:commentRss>http://www.wishcube.com/self-help/the-tinnitus-cure-formula/feed</wfw:commentRss>
		<slash:comments>0</slash:comments>
		</item>
	</channel>
</rss>

